Porn, Erotica, and The Life of a Hot Wife. Your Questions Welcome.
The Reality Is Different than What You May Think
The Reality Is Different than What You May Think
Real hotwives are not nympho sluts who jump on any cock that comes their way just because they have permission.
Hotwife porn can be fun to watch. I never search for it on my own, but my husband has shown me plenty. In the right setting, it’s a turn-on.
Most hotwife porn is just actors fucking. The title may say something like, “Hot Wife Fucks a Stranger.” But, of course, it’s not really a hotwife and a stranger. Usually, the woman is not even wearing a wedding ring.
In other words, it’s fake. But, that’s okay. Porn is porn.
Hotwife erotica can be fun to read. I see quite a lot of it here on Medium and Amazon Kindle. These are fine and can be a turn-on, also. But, they are often unrealistic. Most don’t portray the hotwife lifestyle as it really is.
Real hotwives are not nympho sluts who jump on any cock that comes their way just because they have permission.
When I have sex with another man, it is always because my husband has set it up ahead of time. He has met the potential bull and approved the event.
For example, the time I blew a cop to get my husband out of a ticket. It wasn’t a real cop. It was a friend that we met through our favorite swinger dating site. But, that didn’t make it any less exciting. It felt very real and was a wonderful sexual thrill for me, for my husband, and for the guy pretending to be a cop. It was role-play.
Online, I see so-called, “Hotwife Challenges.” Most of them I would not do. They aren’t realistic or they aren’t safe. For example, one popular hotwife challenge goes like this: “Go into a bar in a short skirt and no panties. Flirt with all the guys in the bar.”
I would never do that.
Here is something I have done. My husband set this up with a guy on our favorite swinger’s site. I went to a prearranged hotel bar and sat alone at a table in the corner. The swinger guy pretended to pick me up at random. He had a room in the hotel. We had some great sex and I sent my hubby pictures. Again, it was role-play.
I would never do that with an actual stranger. Not only would it be unsafe, but I wouldn’t feel turned on doing it. The fun is in knowing that my husband had arranged it for me.
Hotwifing is not about a wife having sex with other guys because she wants lots of different cocks. It’s about an extension of the married sex life. It is an added element to the sex life of the couple. Just as a husband might buy his wife a vibrator to enhance their sex life, he might allow her to have sex with other men for the same reason.
Q & A:
As a hotwife and a writer of hotwife articles, I have received questions on the subject. I love getting questions and answering them honestly. Some can be outrageous. Like one question I got, where a guy asked me, “How many nights a week do you go out?”
I tried to set him straight. I told him that it was not a matter of how many times a week, but how many times a year. We only do the hotwife thing occasionally. We might do it ten times in one year and then nothing for two or three years.
Another well-meaning (I assume) question was, “Aren’t you just looking for a bigger cock than your husband’s?” I wrote an entire article in response to that misguided question.
It would be interesting to me to know what sort of questions are bouncing around in the brain of you, the reader.
So, I ask this. As a reader of hotwife stories, what questions do you have on the subject of hotwifing in reality?
I’m game to all kinds of questions. Some may be answered in the response section, and other answers may become full articles.
There are questions I won’t answer, of course.
1) Anything about my private life, including questions about my family members.
2) Requests that I go out on a date with you. My husband, Mark vets the potential bulls using one of our favorite swingers’ sites.
3) Asking for images or photos of me beyond what I’ve already posted.
I expect the occasional troll. I’ll be polite now in asking that you kindly steer clear of insulting questions or responses. I will not answer and may delete and block those kinds of questions.
I’m not the only one. I’ve known a number of other hotwives.
What would you like to know about real lifestyle of a hotwife?
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